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When it comes to dating and relationships, communication is key. One common issue that can arise is when a woman is not responding to your texts. If you're in this situation, it can be frustrating and confusing. There could be a variety of reasons why a woman is not responding to your texts, and it's important to understand them in order to move forward.
In this article we are going to assume that you have either a ). Been on a date with her and she then went silent, b ). have been texting her for a while but not seen each other face to face.
We assume these 2 potential scenarios because it is often the case that girls stop responding to guys in these situations and guys don't know why. So, we've compiled some reasons that will clear things up for you and give you some solutions for going forward.
Reason Number 1
One reason a woman may not be responding to your texts is that she's simply busy. Life can get hectic, and she may not have the time or energy to respond to your messages at the moment. If this is the case, it's important to be patient and understanding. You should simply give her space to handle her responsibilities, especially if she has told you that she will be very busy over the next few days.
The last thing you want to do is spam her with texts and not let her breathe. This will make her even more distant and you'll just look desperate. If you've been hanging out and it was going well then give her space, she'll come back once her schedule frees up.
There is also the possibility that you thought things were going well, but in reality, they were not. To figure this out it is best to consult a dating coach and go over your situation.
Get in touch with me by emailing leadingmanattraction@gmail.com and we can discuss more specifically why she may not be responding to your texts.
Reason Number 2
A reason a woman may not be responding to your texts that guys are often in denial about, is that she may just not be interested. This can be difficult to hear, but it's important to remember that not everyone will be interested in us romantically. If this is the case, it's best to respect her feelings and move on.
This could be true if your date went badly, or there was simply no 'spark' during the date. This can be frustrating but many guys out there struggle to lead successful first dates. If you struggle with having playful dates, check out the video below to help you improve your flirting skills.
This video will teach you 3 methods to flirt and turn platonic conversations around into playful ones full of teases and fun.
Reason Number 3
It's also possible that there's some other reason she's not responding to your texts. Maybe she's dealing with personal issues, or she's not sure how she feels about you. Whatever the case may be, it's important to have a direct and honest conversation with her to understand her perspective. However, remember to give her space so that she can deal with her situation, and at all cost DO NOT GET UPSET and vent at her.
If you do, you will only push her away. Remain calm and get on with your life. As long as
Reason Number 4
You said something weird or creepy. Maybe you tried to get too sexual over text and kept pushing the idea of sex when she wasn't ready for it. Guys often do this on online dating apps, but they sometimes also have a habit of doing this after a date or when they just start texting the girl after getting her number.
Don't be that guy. If you're not experienced at escalating the conversation over text, and if you are unsure of whether a woman would be into it, simply don't initiate it. Try this and fail and you will get blocked. There is no way back once you make this mistake.
How to get her to respond back !
Assuming that she still likes you but was just too busy and you did not get yourself blocked, there are a couple of texts that you can send her to potentially prompt a response WITHOUT sounding like a looser or a desperate simp.
"Hey, you still around or did you move countries? haha"
"(insert her name) ? 😅"
"(insert her name)..."
You're thinking, "is that it?"... YES IT IS. A woman who is interested in you will respond to a simple prompt text. Anything after that is you chasing a dead lead and wasting your own time. If she doesn't respond, move on.
Conclusion
Ultimately, remember that communication is a two-way street. If you want a woman to respond to your texts, it's important that you're responsive when she reaches out to you as well. Show her that you're interested in what she has to say, and make an effort to keep the conversation going. This will help the text conversation have a natural flow.
In addition, remember that if a girl really likes you, she will respond. If she doesn't, she won't. To get more dates that convert to second dates and sex, email me at leadingmanattraction@gmail.com for some 1 to 1 coaching.
In conclusion, if a woman is not responding to your texts, it could be for a variety of reasons. It's important to be patient and understanding, however it is also important to know when it's time to take a step back and move on.
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